Lord of the Castle

The Joys and Trials of Family Life

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Superman finally gets introduced to cryptonite

April 22nd, 2010 · No Comments

I called Big A this morning to see how he was doing. His weight was down to 167.4 but he was not doing well. He was so weak that he couldn’t wrestle this morning! After all, he has lost 16 pounds in less than a week. So, we decided that he should not go to [...]

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This is so much better

April 20th, 2010 · No Comments

The more I think about it, the better I feel about the FILA tournament. First and most obvious, he will be wrestling against guys his own age. Second, he doesn’t have to weigh in until Saturday afternoon. He would have had to weigh in on Thursday morning for the USA Open tournament. Third, since the [...]

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Back from the dead

April 19th, 2010 · No Comments

Last Thursday afternoon, back when we were planning to have Big A wrestle in a national tournament, I left messages with two men on the USA Wrestling board. Since Big A red-shirted this year and didn’t win any big tournaments, I wanted to ask them how they would seed the wrestlers for the USA Open. Last night, [...]

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That’s not what I planned

April 17th, 2010 · No Comments

Big A called me today. We both went online and he registered to get his USA Wrestling card. During the process, we got some bad news… He cannot compete in the Junior division. It seems that there is an additional restriction beyond the year you were born… You have to be enrolled in the 9th-12th [...]

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Same situation, different year

April 16th, 2010 · No Comments

The longer I thought about it, the less satisfied I was with my discussion with the Drexel wrestling coach. Last year, he said that had had no more money left in his recruiting budget for incoming high school seniors. Since we were having the discussion in April, I believed him. However, when he told me [...]

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I can’t really say that I am surprised

April 14th, 2010 · No Comments

If yesterday’s news regarding the house wasn’t challenging enough, my son called me from Philadelphia. He talked with the wrestling coach… It doesn’t look like  he is going to be awarded a wrestling scholarship! That might be a problem…Drexel is a very expensive school! I left a message on the coach’s voice mail last night. He called me [...]

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It feels like I’ve seen this before

November 24th, 2009 · No Comments

Big A wrestled at another open tournament this weekend… and got his first college victory! In fact, he got two! He lost his first match by a score of 4-2. If he could have held his three point back move for a few more seconds, he would have won that one. But he lost his [...]

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Turn the Caps Lock button off

November 16th, 2009 · No Comments

It looks like Big A has shrunk a little… He’s now medium A… or perhaps even small a… He ended his high school wrestling career with a flourish, losing in the state finals to one of the top 10 wrestlers in the nation. This weekend, he wrestled his first two matches in college… and lost! [...]

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He’s done!

July 16th, 2009 · No Comments

Big A woke up this morning with his knee hurting pretty badly. His visit to the hospital confirmed the pain. He tore his lower collateral ligament. On a scale of 1-3, the doctor thinks it is a 2-3 in severity. Thankfully, this is not one of the two major ligaments (anterior cruciate [ACL] and medial collateral} that [...]

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Oh for two

July 14th, 2009 · No Comments

We had been on the road home from Denver for about three hours when my son called me. He is training with the Kansas state freestyle team this week before heading to Fargo, ND to compete in the nationals. “Dad, a guy had my leg and was trying to take me down. I was fighting [...]

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