A gracious arrangement

I spent the better part of the morning putting the T-Bird back together. It has been in a state of disrepair since the accident. I don’t have a garage so I worked out in the open under a shared carport.

To be truthful, I felt a little like white trash. (Just 48 hours ago, I felt like a hero!) But, the work has to get done! This is no time to stroke my ego. To quote the popular phrase, “It is what it is.” 

I called the guy who quoted the paint job. Since he won’t be able to actually start working on the car for 1-2 months, we worked out an agreement. He will let me store the car there. When he is ready to work on the car, if I decide to have him paint the car, there will be no charge. If I decide not to, I will have to pay him $100/month as a storage fee.

That is very reasonable! I did not want to sign a long term contract to rent a garage.

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An even bigger blow

In response to the threat of having my car towed, I called a young man who paints cars to see if I could tow it over there and actually resume making progress on the car. 

He came over to look at the car and quoted me $8-9,000!!!

I was prepared for $5,000 but this is a really big blow! I don’t know what to do.

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An Unexpected Blow

I received a call from the apartment complex’s office today. It is not good news.

The woman who helped me with all the leasing paperwork called to tell me that they are going to tow away my project car tomorrow!

She said that they are not allowed to have unregistered cars on their property!

I was not expecting this.

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Not a very good second opinion

I finally got a second opinion on my F-150 SuperCrews alignment problem. They confirmed what the first shop said-upper and lower ball joints on both sides are shot. Their price to fix them was $1150! That’s $150 more than the first shop!

E-L-E-V-E-N H-U-N-D-R-E-D AND F-I-F-T-Y DOLLARS!

And then another $300 to replace the two front tires!

I guess I should be grateful that they lasted 160,000 miles. The mechanic said that they usually go out at around 80,000 miles.

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History repeats itself

My son left to train with the Kansas state freestyle team yesterday. He will be training there for one week and then riding on the team bus to Fargo, ND for the Junior National Freestyle Wrestling tournament.

This is his first camp where he is leaving home for an extended time! Somewhere in the foggy recesses of my mind, I remember that I too left home for a week long wrestling camp between my junior and senior years in high school.

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What a great day!

I wish that every day was like today.

In six hours, I officially gifted the car to my second daughter, got it checked for emissions, registered the car and put on her new Tennessee plates.

She completed her application for community college, learned exactly what she needs to do to become a nurse and got a job at the Red Lobster.

We went out for lunch together and got lost in the hills of Tennessee and received a warning instead of a ticket for speeding!

All of this by 4:30!

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This ain’t nothin’

Before we registered the car, we had to take it to a vehicle emission inspection station. Now, having lived in California for 31 years, I had certain expectations of what this test would be like.

Fortunately, I picked the fastest moving line.

We pulled in and the attendant connect his device to the car. About one minute later, he asked “Is the car running?”

He was serious! I guess the car was producing so little emissions that he thought I had turned the car off!

I replied “Yes. This is a California car. It should pass with no problem!”

And it did!

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Gotta tell my wife about this!

My day got off to a great start. My second daughter and I went to register her “new” car with the Williamson County Clerk. I told the woman behind the counter that I wanted to give the car to her.

She asked “Are you boyfriend and girlfriend, husband and wife, brother or sister…?”

I didn’t know where she was going to take this next, so I blurted out “She’s my daughter!”

She was a little embarrassed by her mistake and then said “Oh, really! Well, you look really young!”

She was serious!

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She returned the favor

As I walked into the living room of the house where my second daughter is now staying, I heard someone singing a worship song. It sounded like my daughter, but I wasn’t sure. I mean it has been such a long time since I heard her sing…

I crept quietly up the stairs and peeked…

it was her!

I quickly went back down the stairs and tried to compose myself.

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I made a girl cry today

It seems that I do that fairly regularly. Thankfully, it is usually a good thing.

And she didn’t really cry. Her eyes just welled up with tears.

This morning, I told my second daughter that we (all of us in KC) wanted to help her turn her life around and that we had made a family decision to give her the car that we drove down in.

She had no idea. I think that she was a little overwhelmed.

It was precious!

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