Taking the Plunge

Well, after dreaming about this day, deciding to do it, re-evaluating it more times than I care to admit it, I ordered a refurbished 15.4″ MacBook Pro from Apple today!

I have NEVER bought a computer that was actually the current model before!

I originally planned to have it shipped to the place where I will be staying in CA for the next week but they are promising that the computer will ship between 5/22-29. By that time, I will be back in KC so I had it shipped there instead.

I will have to wait to open it.

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…this blog

As a young college student, I was radically converted to Christianity. I say radically because I was in the process of frying my brain with various pharmaceuticals when Christ saved my soul. I am now a middle-aged Christian man who has been mostly (let’s be honest!) happily married since 1986 and a reasonably competent father since 1987.

We taught our children at home until we moved to Kansas City. Our oldest daughter graduated with honors and works for Neiman Marcus in their Executive Development Program. Our second daughter lives in Nashville and is attending a training school for Christian ministers. Our son is in college on a wrestling/academic scholarship. Our third and youngest daughter just graduated from Blue Valley Northwest high school but is still trapped and living with us!

I am a frustrated (due to a lack of time) amateur philospher and sometime counselor. I am married to a woman whom everyone loves!

My favorite activity is studying the Bible. Really!

After working in the aerospace industry in Los Angeles for 16 years as a reasonably competent Program Manager, in March of 2008, we sold our house in California that I personally designed and remodeled for the 20 years that we owned it. (It’s amazing that my wife still loves me and my children still talk to me!) and moved to Kansas City.

As for the stories that you will find on these pages, I have one thing to say…

I don’t make this stuff up!

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Just kidding about giving up hope

Before I bought the rustic bookcase, I snapped a picture on my cell phone and rushed across to show my wife who was working at Costco. She thought it was great but asked if her store had any bookcases.

“How should I know? You work here. Do you have any?”

“I don’t know.”

I checked and sure enough, Costco had very nice ready-to-assemble all hardwood bookcases in the exact size that I was hoping to find! So we bought two of them.

Did I say that I had given up hope for finding nice bookcases…

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I don’t think the Lord’s happy…

I had given up trying to find nice bookcases at inexpensive prices. Some of the nice ones listed on Craig’s List sold literally within minutes of their listing! I have never seen anything like it.

I had settled on some cheap shelves from Target that looked reasonably nice. The attendant informed me that their store did not have the three units that I requested. After checking online, she referred me to another store in the area that had 5 in their inventory.

Since it was 3:00, I picked my son up from school and then drove to new Target from the west side. As I turned right onto the street leading to the store, I noticed a “Going Out of Business” sign on a Home Furnishings store. I thought, “Hmmm, it won’t hurt to check”.

Inside, there was a beautiful, rustic bookcase made of old, unfinished wood on consignment. The original list price was $599. It was currently priced at $399.

I went to the counter and asked the following question: “What is your absolute, rock bottom, ‘kick-me-out-of-the-store-if-I-offer-you-$1-less’ price?”

She pulled out her calculator, punched the buttons for awhile and then answered “$239.”

As soon as the price left her lips, there was a bright flash of lightning followed INSTANTLY by the loudest thunder that I have ever heard. It shook all of the buildings in the area, knocked out the traffic lights. (I do not possess adequate skills to communicate the sheer power of that explosive sound. I will tell you this: my son is a stud wrestler. After an intense 2 hour wrestling practice, he said that his heart was still frightened 4 hours later!)

I looked at the woman with a straight face and said, “I don’t think that the Lord is happy with that price you just gave me. Are you sure that is your best price?” She burst out laughing.

She didn’t lower the price. I bought the bookcase.

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A Great Moving Company

When it came time to actually move, I had to figure out which company to use. My oldest daughter had just had a bad experience one month earlier. I learned about a company named ABF on MovingScam.com.

If you ever have to move and you are up for the task of packing your stuff yourself, I would recommend them heartily. They have been very accommodating and professional in all of my dealings with this company. Whether it was their call center, the hub in the San Fernando Valley or the Kansas City site, I have found them to be cordial, honest and easy to deal with.

First, I informed them that I would be unable to be present when they dropped the trailer off at our house. They were able to adjust to accomodate me. When I arrived home and found the truck parked in the location I had asked but facing the “wrong” direction, they politely informed me that they had to park the truck the way they did per the vehicle code of California. I asked them if they could move it to a better position. Although it was late on Friday night, they sent someone out to move the truck to a better position. That my friend is exceptional service!

It took us longer than I anticipated to load the truck. They adjusted their pick up time three times!!!

When I called them for delivery in Kansas City, the driver gave me a courtesy call projecting his arrival time. When we unloaded, nothing was broken or shifted. I am very pleased with this company.

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We’re Done!…Almost

We have finished unloading the trailer!

Now we just have to unpack all of the boxes that we moved into the apartment…

find a bedroom set for my wife and I…

purchase six large bookcases to hold the 28 boxes of books that I “must have” close at hand. (FYI, this is not even half of what we have as a family!)

Yes, we are almost done! 🙂

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Don’t Blink

Unloading this trailer is reminding me of my adolescent days working on my uncle’s farm throwing crates packed with corn, baskets full of tomatoes, moving irrigation pipes, etc. I have been dragging my body out of bed every morning for the past three mornings.

However,  when I see my children, I become like a little kid inside. I am so glad to see them. My son was studying this morning, and it was all that I could do to keep my mouth shut for 15 minutes.

After dropping him off at school, Kenny Chesney’s song, “Don’t Blink” came to my mind:

I turned on the evening news
Saw an old man being interviewed
Turning a hundred and two today
Asked him what’s the secret to life
He looked up from his old pipe
Laughed and said “All I can say is.”
Don’t blink

Just like that you’re six years old and you take a nap
And you wake up and you’re twenty-five
And your high school sweetheart becomes your wife
You just might miss your babies growing like mine did
Turning into moms and dads
Next thing you know your “better half” of fifty years is there in bed
And you’re praying God takes you instead
Trust me friend a hundred years goes faster than you think
Don’t blink

I think of the wonderful relationships I have with each of my children, and thank God for the advice that I got as a young father 19 years ago. By the grace of God, I haven’t blinked. I haven’t missed many days. And I didn’t miss this morning either.

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It’s Been Such A Long Time

That’s the title of an old Boston song.

As I walked by the kitchen, I saw my wife lightly crying.
When I inquired what was causing this, I learned that they were tears of gratitude. Why, you ask…

because she was able to use a dishwasher FOR THE FIRST TIME IN OUR MARRIAGE!

Man, does that make me look bad or what?!

I have a good explanation…I think…but I’m not even going to try. It will just make it worse. I know the first law of holes: when you find yourself in one, put down the shovel and stop digging!

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Truly Honored

Yesterday, I set up the children’s beds. On the way to school this morning, both my son and my daughter separately remarked how good it was to sleep in a bed. They have been sharing an air mattress for the past 8 months.

As I returned home, I reflected on what outstanding young people God has given me. These two have moved from the house that they have lived in their entire life to a small 1 BR apartment in a new state. They have gone from being home schooled to attending high school (my son-public, my daughter-private). They have had to work together with their mother to work out travel arrangements and times since they only had one car between them. They have lived without their father in the home for the first time.

Despite all of this, they have excelled in their schoolwork, raised the moral standards in their peer groups and grown spiritually. And they did it all without complaining. I made a point tonight at the dinner table to tell them how proud I am of them.

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Day Game After a Night Game

I woke up this morning and my body is definitely not looking forward to another day of lifting boxes, etc.

You know, I don’t remember getting this tired when we moved into our house 19 years ago!

Now I understand a little better why baseball managers rest older players when they have a day game after playing a night game the previous evening.

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